Had a talk with someone just now whom I upset over a joke I made. Anyway the conversation led me to thinking about what I'm looking for in a partner. I need someone I just like and whom I wouldn't have to make any huge adjustments for, someone whom I wouldn't have to uproot my whole life for just to be with. Or, since love is love, if I find someone whom I love so much that I'd want to change a huge part of my life for, at least someone I can have a goal with for the future. Of course, given na yung shared values. 

Ultimately, it still boils down to compatibility. This was brought on kasi I learned that there are people who seek love by looking for which necessities of theirs can be met by the other person. Baka ganun nga yun sa iba, it's none of my business. That's not my definition of compatibility kasi, and if it's theirs, then that's not an issue at all. At least I learned what doesn't work for me.